{"id":1877,"date":"2025-06-05T08:28:43","date_gmt":"2025-06-05T15:28:43","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.seekyourlove.com\/?p=1877"},"modified":"2025-06-05T08:28:43","modified_gmt":"2025-06-05T15:28:43","slug":"tom-hanks-reacts-to-daughters-memoir-claim-that-mother-was-abusive","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.seekyourlove.com\/?p=1877","title":{"rendered":"Tom Hanks reacts to daughter\u2019s memoir claim that mother was abusive"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><\/p>\n<div id=\"main\">\n<div>\n<div class=\"hydrate-root sc-10wlkbs-0\" data-component=\"SupportNSCNative\" data-loading=\"lazy\" data-theme-name=\"base\">\n<aside class=\"sc-hez36s-0 dFpFuY\">\n<div class=\"sc-hez36s-1 dmMyEN\">\n<h3 data-testid=\"support-nsc-title\" class=\"sc-hez36s-2 fXvmgM\">Your support helps us to tell the story<\/h3>\n<div class=\"sc-hez36s-8 juUDRT\">\n<div class=\"sc-hez36s-13 cqPbFA\">\n<div class=\"sc-aja53j-0 rAFIl sc-hez36s-16 jZSKtc\">\n<div class=\"sc-aja53j-6 PdmgT\">\n<div data-testid=\"dropdown-with-gradient-collapsed-content-container\" class=\"sc-aja53j-5 hJPJVF\">\n<div>\n<div data-testid=\"dropdown-with-gradient-collapsed-content\" class=\"sc-aja53j-4 lcJUSj\">\n<div>\n<div data-testid=\"support-nsc-collapsed-content-tablet\" class=\"sc-hez36s-7 laZbyn\">\n<p class=\"sc-1uza6dc-0 cKWiEj\">From reproductive rights to climate change to Big Tech, The Independent is on the ground when the story is developing. 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We believe quality journalism should be available to everyone, paid for by those who can afford it.<\/p>\n<p><strong class=\"sc-1uza6dc-1 huxBsk\">Your support makes all the difference.<\/strong><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><button class=\"sc-aja53j-1 dLkuvY sc-aja53j-7 eMEmGu\"><span data-testid=\"dropdown-with-gradient-dropdown-tablet\" class=\"sc-aja53j-3 dHXFkr\"><span data-action-type=\"Read more\" class=\"sc-aja53j-2 jrwZqm\">Read more<\/span><svg class=\"sc-eaj12q-0 hUgQwJ sc-culv3z-0 eifaJK sc-a5wy94-0 hyKPon\"><use href=\"#ee6613da15642019\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/button><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/aside>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>Tom Hanks has opened up about claims made in his daughter E.A. Hanks\u2019s memoir.<\/p>\n<p>E.A. \u2014 which stands for Elizabeth Anne \u2014 was the daughter of the <em>Forrest Gump<\/em> actor\u2019s first wife, Susan Dillingham. In her memoir, <em>The 10: A Memoir of Family And The Open Road<\/em><em>, <\/em>which was published back in April, she claimed her mother was both verbally and physically abusive. <\/p>\n<p>Despite her mother never receiving a formal diagnosis, E.A. assumed that her mother was bipolar with episodes of extreme paranoia and delusion.<\/p>\n<p>Her father weighed in on the claims while speaking to <em>Access Hollywood<\/em> on during the red carpet for the premiere of Wes Anderson\u2019s new movie, <em>The<\/em> <em>Phoenician Scheme<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI\u2019m not surprised that my daughter had the wherewithal as well as the curiosity to examine this thing that I think she was incredibly honest about,\u201d Tom said. \u201cWe all come from checkered, cracked lives, all of us.\u201d<\/p>\n<div class=\"sc-482ou5-2 hmmOgn sc-482ou5-3 image align-center\">\n<figure class=\"sc-1cbdeug-0 cXcwgU\">\n<div class=\"sc-482ou5-0 kMskNJ\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/static.the-independent.com\/2025\/06\/05\/14\/10\/GettyImages-2209256657.jpg\" srcset=\"https:\/\/static.the-independent.com\/2025\/06\/05\/14\/10\/GettyImages-2209256657.jpg?quality=75&amp;width=320&amp;crop=3%3A2%2Csmart&amp;trim=0%2C88%2C490%2C173&amp;auto=webp 320w, https:\/\/static.the-independent.com\/2025\/06\/05\/14\/10\/GettyImages-2209256657.jpg?quality=75&amp;width=640&amp;crop=3%3A2%2Csmart&amp;trim=0%2C88%2C490%2C173&amp;auto=webp 640w\" loading=\"lazy\" alt=\"E.A. Hanks and Tom Hanks discussed her book, \u2018The 10: A Memoir Of Family And The Open Road,\u2019 at a New York event in April\" class=\"sc-1mc30lb-0 ggpMaE\"\/><\/div><figcaption class=\"sc-1cbdeug-1 sc-1cbdeug-3 bpFomM hgzWpY\">E.A. Hanks and Tom Hanks discussed her book, \u2018The 10: A Memoir Of Family And The Open Road,\u2019 at a New York event in April<span class=\"sc-1cbdeug-7 CXMrn\"> <!-- -->(<!-- -->Getty Images for ABA<!-- -->)<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<p>\u201cShe\u2019s a knockout, always has been,\u201d he added. \u201cIf you\u2019ve had kids, you realize that you see who they are when they\u2019re about 6 weeks old.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Dillingham and Hanks were married from 1978 to 1987, with Dillingham receiving primary custody of both of their children. However, one day, E.A.\u2019s mother spontaneously decided to move her and her older brother Colin from Sacramento, California, to Los Angeles without informing Tom.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cMy dad came to pick us up from school and we\u2019re not there,\u201d E.A. said. \u201cAnd it turns out we haven&#8217;t been there for two weeks and he has to track us down.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Hanks went on to marry Rita Wilson in 1988, and they welcomed two sons: Chet in 1990 and Truman in 1995.<\/p>\n<p>The <em>Cast Away<\/em> actor has previously opened up about the differences between his two sets of children in a 2019 interview with <em>The New York Times<\/em>. \u201cMy son [Colin] was born when I was very young. As well as my daughter [Elizabeth],\u201d he said.<\/p>\n<p>He explained that after being a parent as long as he has, the best thing a mother or father can say to their children is, \u201cI love you, there&#8217;s nothing you can do wrong, you cannot hurt my feelings, I hope you will forgive me on occasion, and what do you need me to do?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cYou offer up that to them,\u201d Tom continued. \u201c\u2018I will do anything I can possibly do in order to keep you safe.\u2019 That&#8217;s it. Offer that up and then just love them.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Your support helps us to tell the story From reproductive rights to climate change to Big Tech, The Independent is on the ground when the story is developing. Whether it&#8217;s investigating the financials of Elon Musk&#8217;s pro-Trump PAC or producing our latest documentary, &#8216;The A Word&#8217;, which shines a light on the American women fighting for reproductive rights, we know how important it is to parse out the facts from the messaging. At such a critical moment in US history, we need reporters on the ground. Your donation allows us to keep sending journalists to speak to both sides of the story. The Independent is trusted by Americans across the entire political spectrum. And unlike many other quality news outlets, we choose not to lock Americans out of our reporting and analysis with paywalls. We believe quality journalism should be available to everyone, paid for by those who can afford it. Your support makes all the difference. Read more Tom Hanks has opened up about claims made in his daughter E.A. Hanks\u2019s memoir. E.A. \u2014 which stands for Elizabeth Anne \u2014 was the daughter of the Forrest Gump actor\u2019s first wife, Susan Dillingham. In her memoir, The 10: A Memoir of Family And The Open Road, which was published back in April, she claimed her mother was both verbally and physically abusive. Despite her mother never receiving a formal diagnosis, E.A. assumed that her mother was bipolar with episodes of extreme paranoia and delusion. Her father weighed in on the claims while speaking to Access Hollywood on during the red carpet for the premiere of Wes Anderson\u2019s new movie, The Phoenician Scheme. \u201cI\u2019m not surprised that my daughter had the wherewithal as well as the curiosity to examine this thing that I think she was incredibly honest about,\u201d Tom said. \u201cWe all come from checkered, cracked lives, all of us.\u201d E.A. Hanks and Tom Hanks discussed her book, \u2018The 10: A Memoir Of Family And The Open Road,\u2019 at a New York event in April (Getty Images for ABA) \u201cShe\u2019s&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1878,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[2],"tags":[],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.seekyourlove.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1877"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.seekyourlove.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.seekyourlove.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.seekyourlove.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.seekyourlove.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1877"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.seekyourlove.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1877\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.seekyourlove.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/1878"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.seekyourlove.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1877"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.seekyourlove.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1877"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.seekyourlove.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1877"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}