{"id":5152,"date":"2025-08-28T09:38:47","date_gmt":"2025-08-28T16:38:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.seekyourlove.com\/?p=5152"},"modified":"2025-08-28T09:38:47","modified_gmt":"2025-08-28T16:38:47","slug":"kate-gosselin-admits-ugly-divorce-from-jon-did-not-turn-out-well-for-their-eight-children","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.seekyourlove.com\/?p=5152","title":{"rendered":"Kate Gosselin admits \u2018ugly\u2019 divorce from Jon \u2018did not turn out well\u2019 for their eight children"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><\/p>\n<div id=\"main\">\n<div>\n<div class=\"hydrate-root sc-10wlkbs-0\" data-component=\"SupportNSCNative\" data-loading=\"lazy\" data-theme-name=\"base\">\n<aside class=\"sc-hez36s-0 dFpFuY\">\n<div class=\"sc-hez36s-1 dmMyEN\">\n<h3 data-testid=\"support-nsc-title\" class=\"sc-hez36s-2 fXvmgM\">Your support helps us to tell the story<\/h3>\n<div class=\"sc-hez36s-8 juUDRT\">\n<div class=\"sc-hez36s-13 cqPbFA\">\n<div class=\"sc-aja53j-0 rAFIl sc-hez36s-16 jZSKtc\">\n<div class=\"sc-aja53j-6 PdmgT\">\n<div data-testid=\"dropdown-with-gradient-collapsed-content-container\" class=\"sc-aja53j-5 hJPJVF\">\n<div>\n<div data-testid=\"dropdown-with-gradient-collapsed-content\" class=\"sc-aja53j-4 lcJUSj\">\n<div>\n<div data-testid=\"support-nsc-collapsed-content-tablet\" class=\"sc-hez36s-7 laZbyn\">\n<p class=\"sc-1uza6dc-0 cKWiEj\">From reproductive rights to climate change to Big Tech, The Independent is on the ground when the story is developing. Whether it&#8217;s investigating the financials of Elon Musk&#8217;s pro-Trump PAC or producing our latest documentary, &#8216;The A Word&#8217;, which shines a light on the American women fighting for reproductive rights, we know how important it is to parse out the facts from the messaging.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-1uza6dc-0 cKWiEj\">At such a critical moment in US history, we need reporters on the ground. Your donation allows us to keep sending journalists to speak to both sides of the story.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-1uza6dc-0 cKWiEj\">The Independent is trusted by Americans across the entire political spectrum. And unlike many other quality news outlets, we choose not to lock Americans out of our reporting and analysis with paywalls. We believe quality journalism should be available to everyone, paid for by those who can afford it.<\/p>\n<p><strong class=\"sc-1uza6dc-1 huxBsk\">Your support makes all the difference.<\/strong><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><button class=\"sc-aja53j-1 dLkuvY sc-aja53j-7 eMEmGu\"><span data-testid=\"dropdown-with-gradient-dropdown-tablet\" class=\"sc-aja53j-3 dHXFkr\"><span data-action-type=\"Read more\" class=\"sc-aja53j-2 jrwZqm\">Read more<\/span><svg class=\"sc-eaj12q-0 hUgQwJ sc-culv3z-0 eifaJK sc-a5wy94-0 hyKPon\"><use href=\"#ee6613da15642019\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/button><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/aside>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>Kate Gosselin is speaking out about her 2009 divorce from Jon Gosselin. <\/p>\n<p>The 50-year-old former reality star, who appeared on <em>Jon &amp; Kate Plus 8<\/em> with her ex-husband, answered a viewer\u2019s question about how to navigate a divorce during a TikTok Live Wednesday. <\/p>\n<p>\u201cI don&#8217;t know if you have kids or don&#8217;t have kids, but I just, I made decisions based on how I would want to be treated, honestly,\u201d she said, as reported by <em>People<\/em>. \u201cAnd I didn&#8217;t buy into all the drama and the hate, and the ugly. And I had kids involved, so I wanted it to be as peaceful for them as I possibly could.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cI did not hire an attorney that wanted to stir up trouble; I just wanted it to be peaceful, and I wanted the best for my kids,\u201d she continued. \u201cA lot of things happened that I could not control that did not turn out well for my kids, but I did my best. We just got through it to the best of our ability.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>However, she did claim that her and Jon\u2019s divorce \u201ccould&#8217;ve been a lot calmer and a lot nicer if everybody was willing to play nice.\u201d<\/p>\n<div class=\"sc-awdjp1-2 cbpRGD sc-awdjp1-3 image align-center\">\n<figure class=\"sc-1cbdeug-0 cXcwgU\">\n<div class=\"sc-awdjp1-0 geLykb\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/static.the-independent.com\/2025\/08\/28\/16\/18\/jon-kate-gosselin.jpeg\" srcset=\"https:\/\/static.the-independent.com\/2025\/08\/28\/16\/18\/jon-kate-gosselin.jpeg?quality=75&amp;width=320&amp;auto=webp 320w, https:\/\/static.the-independent.com\/2025\/08\/28\/16\/18\/jon-kate-gosselin.jpeg?quality=75&amp;width=640&amp;auto=webp 640w\" loading=\"lazy\" alt=\"Former couple Kate and Jon Gosselin starred in their TLC show, \u2018Jon &amp; Kate Plus 8\u2019 for two years\" class=\"sc-1mc30lb-0 ggpMaE\"\/><\/div><figcaption class=\"sc-1cbdeug-1 sc-1cbdeug-3 bpFomM hgzWpY\">Former couple Kate and Jon Gosselin starred in their TLC show, \u2018Jon &amp; Kate Plus 8\u2019 for two years<span class=\"sc-1cbdeug-7 CXMrn\"> <!-- -->(<!-- -->Getty Images<!-- -->)<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<p><em>The Independent<\/em> has contacted a representative for Jon Gosselin for comment. <\/p>\n<p>From 2007 to 2009, Kate and Jon starred in their hit TLC reality show about the former couple\u2019s now-21-year-old sextuplets, Hannah, Leah, Alexis, Joel, Aaden, and Collin, and their now-24-year-old twins, Madelyn and Cara. <\/p>\n<p>The series was later renamed to <em>Kate Plus<\/em> 8, featuring Kate navigating life as a single parent, and ran from 2010 to 2017. However, Jon often made appearances in the program. <\/p>\n<p>Although Kate was awarded custody of their eight children after the divorce, Jon was later given custody of her estranged son Collin \u2014 who spent two years in a behavioral health institution after his mom sent him there \u2014 and Hannah. <\/p>\n<p>Kate\u2019s divorce comments came days after she responded to Collin\u2019s claim that he and his siblings were \u201cforced apart\u201d and \u201cpitted against each other.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHe knows why&#8230;\u201d she wrote in the comments of a TikTok video after a fan shared a screenshot of Collin\u2019s post.<\/p>\n<p>Collin claimed in his initial TikTok, shared earlier this month, that he and his siblings were \u201cborn to be a team.\u201d However, he then said, alongside a throwback picture of the eight kids, that they were \u201cforced to\u201d go through life alone and \u201cwonder what [their] lives could have looked like.\u201d <\/p>\n<p>\u201cForced apart, pitted against each other,\u201d he added in the caption. \u201cAll the fame and money in the world, but what about kids being kids? I will always love them more than anything. The tears I shed behind closed doors, thinking about the memories we could\u2019ve shared.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Collin has been estranged from his mother for several years and has publicly accused her of emotional and physical abuse during his childhood. Kate has continued to deny those allegations. <\/p>\n<p>In an interview with <em>The Sun<\/em><em> <\/em>last year, Collin claimed he was confined and \u201cisolated\u201d from his other seven siblings by Kate and that he was \u201ca scapegoat\u201d for his mother\u2019s problems and often took \u201cthe brute end of things.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Kate\u2019s attorney, Richard Puleo, told <em>The Sun<\/em> that he didn&#8217;t believe that Kate had done anything to \u201cintentionally harm\u201d her son and that \u201cshe did what she did to protect herself and her family\u201d from what he called \u201ctroubled behavior.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<p><script async src=\"\/\/www.tiktok.com\/embed.js\"><\/script><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Your support helps us to tell the story From reproductive rights to climate change to Big Tech, The Independent is on the ground when the story is developing. Whether it&#8217;s investigating the financials of Elon Musk&#8217;s pro-Trump PAC or producing our latest documentary, &#8216;The A Word&#8217;, which shines a light on the American women fighting for reproductive rights, we know how important it is to parse out the facts from the messaging. At such a critical moment in US history, we need reporters on the ground. Your donation allows us to keep sending journalists to speak to both sides of the story. The Independent is trusted by Americans across the entire political spectrum. And unlike many other quality news outlets, we choose not to lock Americans out of our reporting and analysis with paywalls. We believe quality journalism should be available to everyone, paid for by those who can afford it. Your support makes all the difference. Read more Kate Gosselin is speaking out about her 2009 divorce from Jon Gosselin. The 50-year-old former reality star, who appeared on Jon &amp; Kate Plus 8 with her ex-husband, answered a viewer\u2019s question about how to navigate a divorce during a TikTok Live Wednesday. \u201cI don&#8217;t know if you have kids or don&#8217;t have kids, but I just, I made decisions based on how I would want to be treated, honestly,\u201d she said, as reported by People. \u201cAnd I didn&#8217;t buy into all the drama and the hate, and the ugly. And I had kids involved, so I wanted it to be as peaceful for them as I possibly could. \u201cI did not hire an attorney that wanted to stir up trouble; I just wanted it to be peaceful, and I wanted the best for my kids,\u201d she continued. \u201cA lot of things happened that I could not control that did not turn out well for my kids, but I did my best. We just got through it to the best of our ability.\u201d However, she did claim that her and Jon\u2019s divorce \u201ccould&#8217;ve been a lot calmer and a lot nicer if everybody was willing to p&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":5153,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[2],"tags":[],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.seekyourlove.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5152"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.seekyourlove.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.seekyourlove.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.seekyourlove.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.seekyourlove.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=5152"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.seekyourlove.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/5152\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.seekyourlove.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/5153"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.seekyourlove.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=5152"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.seekyourlove.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=5152"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.seekyourlove.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=5152"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}