{"id":5220,"date":"2025-08-30T06:38:20","date_gmt":"2025-08-30T13:38:20","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/www.seekyourlove.com\/?p=5220"},"modified":"2025-08-30T06:38:20","modified_gmt":"2025-08-30T13:38:20","slug":"vernon-kay-reveals-his-and-tess-dalys-unusual-parenting-style","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.seekyourlove.com\/?p=5220","title":{"rendered":"Vernon Kay reveals his and Tess Daly\u2019s unusual parenting style"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><\/p>\n<div id=\"main\">\n<div>\n<div class=\"hydrate-root sc-10wlkbs-0\" data-component=\"SupportNSCNative\" data-loading=\"lazy\" data-theme-name=\"base\">\n<aside class=\"sc-hez36s-0 dFpFuY\">\n<div class=\"sc-hez36s-1 dmMyEN\">\n<h3 data-testid=\"support-nsc-title\" class=\"sc-hez36s-2 fXvmgM\">Your support helps us to tell the story<\/h3>\n<div class=\"sc-hez36s-8 juUDRT\">\n<div class=\"sc-hez36s-13 cqPbFA\">\n<div class=\"sc-aja53j-0 rAFIl sc-hez36s-16 jZSKtc\">\n<div class=\"sc-aja53j-6 PdmgT\">\n<div data-testid=\"dropdown-with-gradient-collapsed-content-container\" class=\"sc-aja53j-5 hJPJVF\">\n<div>\n<div data-testid=\"dropdown-with-gradient-collapsed-content\" class=\"sc-aja53j-4 lcJUSj\">\n<div>\n<div data-testid=\"support-nsc-collapsed-content-tablet\" class=\"sc-hez36s-7 laZbyn\">\n<p class=\"sc-1uza6dc-0 cKWiEj\">From reproductive rights to climate change to Big Tech, The Independent is on the ground when the story is developing. Whether it&#8217;s investigating the financials of Elon Musk&#8217;s pro-Trump PAC or producing our latest documentary, &#8216;The A Word&#8217;, which shines a light on the American women fighting for reproductive rights, we know how important it is to parse out the facts from the messaging.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-1uza6dc-0 cKWiEj\">At such a critical moment in US history, we need reporters on the ground. Your donation allows us to keep sending journalists to speak to both sides of the story.<\/p>\n<p class=\"sc-1uza6dc-0 cKWiEj\">The Independent is trusted by Americans across the entire political spectrum. And unlike many other quality news outlets, we choose not to lock Americans out of our reporting and analysis with paywalls. We believe quality journalism should be available to everyone, paid for by those who can afford it.<\/p>\n<p><strong class=\"sc-1uza6dc-1 huxBsk\">Your support makes all the difference.<\/strong><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><button class=\"sc-aja53j-1 dLkuvY sc-aja53j-7 eMEmGu\"><span data-testid=\"dropdown-with-gradient-dropdown-tablet\" class=\"sc-aja53j-3 dHXFkr\"><span data-action-type=\"Read more\" class=\"sc-aja53j-2 jrwZqm\">Read more<\/span><svg class=\"sc-eaj12q-0 hUgQwJ sc-culv3z-0 eifaJK sc-a5wy94-0 hyKPon\"><use href=\"#ee6613da15642019\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/button><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/aside>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>Vernon Kay has given an insight into his unusual parenting tactic with his wife Tess Daly.<\/p>\n<p>The BBC Radio 2 presenter revealed that while one parent will take the \u201cgood cop\u201d role and the other \u201cbad cop\u201d, Kay said that they will alternate their roles to keep their daughters guessing.<\/p>\n<p>He told<em> <\/em><em>The Mirror<\/em>: \u201cWe play good cop, bad cop, but alternate the roles. You have to keep \u2019em guessing. They\u2019ll always be my little girls.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Kay added that he and Daly, who co-hosts <em>Strictly Come Dancing <\/em>with Claudia Winkleman, do not put pressure on their children to move towards a \u201ccertain direction\u201d concerning their education.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt\u2019s totally up to them,\u201d he said. \u201cAs a parent, you can only hold their hand and say, \u2018This is right or wrong\u2019 for so long. There\u2019s got to be a point where you take them off the lead and let them discover life.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>The couple, who wed in 2003, share Phoebe, 20, and Amber, 16.<\/p>\n<p>Daly was recognised alongside her <em>Strictly <\/em>co-host Winkleman in the King\u2019s Birthday Honours for her services to broadcasting.<\/p>\n<p>In a tribute shared online, Kay praised Winkleman and the <em>Strictly<\/em> team for \u201cconsistently producing the best show every year\u201d.<\/p>\n<div class=\"sc-awdjp1-2 cbpRGD sc-awdjp1-3 image align-center\">\n<figure class=\"sc-1cbdeug-0 cXcwgU\">\n<div class=\"sc-awdjp1-0 cBsOQW\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/static.the-independent.com\/2025\/08\/30\/12\/00\/GettyImages-2171384742.jpg\" srcset=\"https:\/\/static.the-independent.com\/2025\/08\/30\/12\/00\/GettyImages-2171384742.jpg?quality=75&amp;width=320&amp;crop=3%3A2%2Csmart&amp;trim=108%2C1862%2C2395%2C1894&amp;auto=webp 320w, https:\/\/static.the-independent.com\/2025\/08\/30\/12\/00\/GettyImages-2171384742.jpg?quality=75&amp;width=640&amp;crop=3%3A2%2Csmart&amp;trim=108%2C1862%2C2395%2C1894&amp;auto=webp 640w\" loading=\"lazy\" alt=\"Vernon Kay and Tess Daly share daughters Phoebe, 20, and Amber, 16\" class=\"sc-1mc30lb-0 ggpMaE\"\/><\/div><figcaption class=\"sc-1cbdeug-1 sc-1cbdeug-3 bpFomM hgzWpY\">Vernon Kay and Tess Daly share daughters Phoebe, 20, and Amber, 16<span class=\"sc-1cbdeug-7 CXMrn\"> <!-- -->(<!-- -->Getty Images for the NTA&#8217;s<!-- -->)<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<p>Posting a series of photographs on Instagram, Kay said: \u201cWell what can we say!!! Congratulations @tessdaly on your MBE.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cAll the hard work and huge effort you put into everything you do has been recognised by the King.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cBeing on <em>Strictly<\/em> from the start when our babies weren\u2019t even born just proves how well you\u2019ve done. Now they\u2019re almost 21 and 16 and we\u2019ve all enjoyed this journey together!!<\/p>\n<p>Daly rose to fame after hosting <em>The Big Breakfast\u2019<\/em>s Find Me A Model<em> <\/em>competition on Channel 4, which aired in 1999.<\/p>\n<p>To mark her MBE achievement, Daly shared a celebratory photo on Instagram, in which she and the late Bruce Forsyth held their iconic \u201ckeep dancing\u201d pose. She wrote: \u201cIf I could, I would dedicate it to all the wonderful people I have had the pleasure of working with over the past 26 years.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>\u201cFrom back in 2004 when it all began with the wonderful Sir Bruce Forsyth til now \u2013 21 years later,\u201d she wrote. \u201cHuge congrats to my brilliant girl @claudiawinkle on receiving her award too \u2013 who would\u2019ve thought we\u2019d be celebrating this together 20 years after we first met?\u201d<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Your support helps us to tell the story From reproductive rights to climate change to Big Tech, The Independent is on the ground when the story is developing. Whether it&#8217;s investigating the financials of Elon Musk&#8217;s pro-Trump PAC or producing our latest documentary, &#8216;The A Word&#8217;, which shines a light on the American women fighting for reproductive rights, we know how important it is to parse out the facts from the messaging. At such a critical moment in US history, we need reporters on the ground. Your donation allows us to keep sending journalists to speak to both sides of the story. The Independent is trusted by Americans across the entire political spectrum. And unlike many other quality news outlets, we choose not to lock Americans out of our reporting and analysis with paywalls. We believe quality journalism should be available to everyone, paid for by those who can afford it. Your support makes all the difference. Read more Vernon Kay has given an insight into his unusual parenting tactic with his wife Tess Daly. The BBC Radio 2 presenter revealed that while one parent will take the \u201cgood cop\u201d role and the other \u201cbad cop\u201d, Kay said that they will alternate their roles to keep their daughters guessing. He told The Mirror: \u201cWe play good cop, bad cop, but alternate the roles. You have to keep \u2019em guessing. They\u2019ll always be my little girls.\u201d Kay added that he and Daly, who co-hosts Strictly Come Dancing with Claudia Winkleman, do not put pressure on their children to move towards a \u201ccertain direction\u201d concerning their education. \u201cIt\u2019s totally up to them,\u201d he said. \u201cAs a parent, you can only hold their hand and say, \u2018This is right or wrong\u2019 for so long. There\u2019s got to be a point where you take them off the lead and let them discover life.\u201d The couple, who wed in 2003, share Phoebe, 20, and Amber, 16. Daly was recognised alongside her Strictly co-host Winkleman in the King\u2019s Birthday Honours for her services to broadcasting. 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