{"id":7356,"date":"2025-10-14T21:39:55","date_gmt":"2025-10-15T04:39:55","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.seekyourlove.com\/?p=7356"},"modified":"2025-10-14T21:39:55","modified_gmt":"2025-10-15T04:39:55","slug":"jennifer-aniston-on-why-she-doesnt-want-to-adopt-after-20-year-struggle-to-have-baby","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.seekyourlove.com\/?p=7356","title":{"rendered":"Jennifer Aniston on why she doesn\u2019t want to adopt after 20-year struggle to have baby"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><\/p>\n<div id=\"main\">\n<div>\n<div class=\"hydrate-root sc-10wlkbs-0\" data-component=\"SupportNSCNative\" data-loading=\"lazy\" data-theme-name=\"base\">\n<aside class=\"sc-hez36s-0 dFpFuY\">\n<div class=\"sc-hez36s-1 iBibVd\">\n<h3 data-testid=\"support-nsc-title\" class=\"sc-hez36s-2 fXvmgM\">Your support helps us to tell the story<\/h3>\n<div class=\"sc-hez36s-8 juUDRT\">\n<div class=\"sc-hez36s-13 cqPbFA\">\n<div class=\"sc-aja53j-0 rAFIl sc-hez36s-16 jZSKtc\">\n<div class=\"sc-aja53j-6 PdmgT\">\n<div data-testid=\"dropdown-with-gradient-collapsed-content-container\" class=\"sc-aja53j-5 hJPJVF\">\n<div>\n<div data-testid=\"dropdown-with-gradient-collapsed-content\" class=\"sc-aja53j-4 dDhojf\">\n<div>\n<div data-testid=\"support-nsc-collapsed-content-tablet\" class=\"sc-hez36s-7 cUJDWn\">\n<p class=\"sc-1uza6dc-0 jEZjIj\">From reproductive rights to climate change to Big Tech, The Independent is on the ground when the story is developing. 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We believe quality journalism should be available to everyone, paid for by those who can afford it.<\/p>\n<p><strong class=\"sc-1uza6dc-1 gunhQQ\">Your support makes all the difference.<\/strong><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p><button class=\"sc-aja53j-1 keLMOw sc-aja53j-7 eMEmGu\"><span data-testid=\"dropdown-with-gradient-dropdown-tablet\" class=\"sc-aja53j-3 dHXFkr\"><span data-action-type=\"Read more\" class=\"sc-aja53j-2 jrwZqm\">Read more<\/span><svg class=\"sc-eaj12q-0 hUgQwJ sc-culv3z-0 eifaJK sc-a5wy94-0 hyKPon\"><use href=\"#ee6613da15642019\"\/><\/svg><\/span><\/button><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/aside>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>Jennifer Aniston has said she doesn\u2019t want to adopt because she would want her child to have her DNA.<\/p>\n<p>The <em>Friends<\/em> star, who recently opened up about her 20-year struggle to have kids, said she had decided against adoption after trying IVF. Aniston, 56, added that she saw having her own child as \u201cthe only way\u201d for her, acknowledging that some people might consider that selfish.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThere\u2019s a point where it\u2019s, like, out of my control,\u201d she said on the <em>Armchair Expert<\/em> podcast. \u201cThere\u2019s literally nothing I can do about it.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cWhen people say, \u2018But you can adopt,\u2019 I don\u2019t want to adopt. I want my own DNA in a little person. That\u2019s the only way: selfish or not, whatever that is, I\u2019ve wanted it.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Aniston, who has been married to Brad Pitt and Justin Theroux, said having children \u201cjust wasn\u2019t in the plan, whatever the plan was\u201d, and recalled the heartbreaking moment when doctors told her she had done all she could.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cIt\u2019s very emotional, especially in the moment when they say, \u2018That\u2019s it,\u2019 because there is a weird moment when that happens.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Aniston has previously opened up about her private 20-year struggle to conceive, and criticised the speculation she\u2019s faced as a result of having no children.<\/p>\n<div class=\"sc-awdjp1-2 cbpRGD sc-awdjp1-3 image align-none\">\n<figure class=\"sc-1cbdeug-0 cXcwgU\">\n<div data-gallery-length=\"2\" class=\"sc-awdjp1-0 bTNVnY\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/static.the-independent.com\/2025\/10\/11\/16\/newFile.jpg\" srcset=\"https:\/\/static.the-independent.com\/2025\/10\/11\/16\/newFile.jpg?quality=75&amp;width=320&amp;auto=webp 320w, https:\/\/static.the-independent.com\/2025\/10\/11\/16\/newFile.jpg?quality=75&amp;width=640&amp;auto=webp 640w\" loading=\"lazy\" alt=\"Jennifer Aniston has felt compelled to correct the \u2018narrative\u2019 that she didn\u2019t have children because she is \u2018a selfish workaholic\u2019\" class=\"sc-1mc30lb-0 ggpMaE inline-gallery-btn\"\/><\/p>\n<p><button class=\"sc-1uf4o3q-0 dkRtZs inline-gallery-btn\" id=\"trigger-autogallery-119061\"><span class=\"sc-1uf4o3q-1 hwVecx\">open image in gallery<\/span><\/button><\/p>\n<\/div><figcaption class=\"sc-1cbdeug-1 sc-1cbdeug-3 bpFomM hgzWpY\">Jennifer Aniston has felt compelled to correct the \u2018narrative\u2019 that she didn\u2019t have children because she is \u2018a selfish workaholic\u2019<span class=\"sc-1cbdeug-7 CXMrn\"> <!-- -->(<!-- -->YouTube<!-- -->)<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<p>The actor said she felt pressured to address \u201cthe narrative\u201d that suggested she hadn\u2019t had kids because she is \u201ca selfish workaholic\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cThey didn\u2019t know my story, or what I\u2019d been going through over the past 20 years to try to pursue a family, because I don\u2019t go out there and tell them my medical woes,\u201d Aniston told <em>Harper\u2019s Bazaar UK<\/em>.<\/p>\n<p>The actor said her personal life is not anybody\u2019s business but \u201cthere comes a point when you can\u2019t not hear the narrative about how I won\u2019t have a baby, won\u2019t have a family\u201d.<\/p>\n<p>Aniston said that as she has gotten older, she cares less about correcting the falsehoods \u201cbecause it will happen eventually\u201d. \u201cThe news cycle is so fast, it just goes away,\u201d she continued \u2013 but admitted she had felt the speculation was unjust.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cOf course, there are times when I feel that sense of justice \u2013 when something has been said that isn\u2019t true, and I need to right the wrong. And then I think, do I really? My family knows my truth, my friends know my truth.\u201d<\/p>\n<div class=\"sc-awdjp1-2 cbpRGD sc-awdjp1-3 image align-none\">\n<figure class=\"sc-1cbdeug-0 cXcwgU\">\n<div data-gallery-length=\"2\" class=\"sc-awdjp1-0 cPvXsi\"><img decoding=\"async\" src=\"https:\/\/static.the-independent.com\/2025\/02\/28\/09\/GettyImages-2248564.jpg\" srcset=\"https:\/\/static.the-independent.com\/2025\/02\/28\/09\/GettyImages-2248564.jpg?quality=75&amp;width=320&amp;auto=webp 320w, https:\/\/static.the-independent.com\/2025\/02\/28\/09\/GettyImages-2248564.jpg?quality=75&amp;width=640&amp;auto=webp 640w\" loading=\"lazy\" alt=\"Aniston was married to Brad Pitt from 2000 to 2005\" class=\"sc-1mc30lb-0 ggpMaE inline-gallery-btn\"\/><\/p>\n<p><button class=\"sc-1uf4o3q-0 dkRtZs inline-gallery-btn\" id=\"trigger-autogallery-119062\"><span class=\"sc-1uf4o3q-1 hwVecx\">open image in gallery<\/span><\/button><\/p>\n<\/div><figcaption class=\"sc-1cbdeug-1 sc-1cbdeug-3 bpFomM hgzWpY\">Aniston was married to Brad Pitt from 2000 to 2005<span class=\"sc-1cbdeug-7 CXMrn\"> <!-- -->(<!-- -->Getty<!-- -->)<\/span><\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<\/div>\n<p>Aniston previously said \u201cthe baby-making road\u201d had been challenging for her. She told <em>Allure<\/em> in 2022: \u201cI would\u2019ve given anything if someone had said to me, \u2018Freeze your eggs. Do yourself a favour\u2019. You just don\u2019t think it. So here I am today. The ship has sailed. But I have zero regrets.<\/p>\n<p>\u201cMy late thirties, forties, I\u2019d gone through really hard s***, and if it wasn\u2019t for going through that, I would\u2019ve never become who I was meant to be. I was trying to get pregnant.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>She said that the \u201cyears and years of speculation was really hard\u201d, adding: \u201cI was going through IVF, drinking Chinese teas, you name it. I was throwing everything at it.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Aniston previously said the claim that her marriage to Pitt had ended because she didn\u2019t want children was an \u201cabsolute lie\u201d.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Your support helps us to tell the story From reproductive rights to climate change to Big Tech, The Independent is on the ground when the story is developing. Whether it&#8217;s investigating the financials of Elon Musk&#8217;s pro-Trump PAC or producing our latest documentary, &#8216;The A Word&#8217;, which shines a light on the American women fighting for reproductive rights, we know how important it is to parse out the facts from the messaging. At such a critical moment in US history, we need reporters on the ground. Your donation allows us to keep sending journalists to speak to both sides of the story. The Independent is trusted by Americans across the entire political spectrum. And unlike many other quality news outlets, we choose not to lock Americans out of our reporting and analysis with paywalls. We believe quality journalism should be available to everyone, paid for by those who can afford it. Your support makes all the difference. Read more Jennifer Aniston has said she doesn\u2019t want to adopt because she would want her child to have her DNA. The Friends star, who recently opened up about her 20-year struggle to have kids, said she had decided against adoption after trying IVF. Aniston, 56, added that she saw having her own child as \u201cthe only way\u201d for her, acknowledging that some people might consider that selfish. \u201cThere\u2019s a point where it\u2019s, like, out of my control,\u201d she said on the Armchair Expert podcast. \u201cThere\u2019s literally nothing I can do about it. \u201cWhen people say, \u2018But you can adopt,\u2019 I don\u2019t want to adopt. I want my own DNA in a little person. That\u2019s the only way: selfish or not, whatever that is, I\u2019ve wanted it.\u201d Aniston, who has been married to Brad Pitt and Justin Theroux, said having children \u201cjust wasn\u2019t in the plan, whatever the plan was\u201d, and recalled the heartbreaking moment when doctors told her she had done all she could. \u201cIt\u2019s very emotional, especially in the moment when they say, \u2018That\u2019s it,\u2019 because there is a weird moment when that&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":7357,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":[],"categories":[2],"tags":[],"acf":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.seekyourlove.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7356"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.seekyourlove.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.seekyourlove.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.seekyourlove.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.seekyourlove.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=7356"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/www.seekyourlove.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/7356\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.seekyourlove.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/7357"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/www.seekyourlove.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=7356"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.seekyourlove.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=7356"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/www.seekyourlove.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=7356"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}