Ranking list of the top 10 dating mines for men and women

Is it really that difficult to fall in love? Mastering the dating mines may be the key to your success! When two parties face the final step of further development, they will definitely observe each other during the dating process. In addition to pursuing a better understanding of each others habits, they can also learn about each others strengths and weaknesses through many small details to judge whether they are suitable for becoming another partner. half.

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This time, DailyView Internet Thermometer used the KEYPO Big Data Key Engine public opinion analysis system to investigate the landmines of dating, which will make people think Oh my God! Its a huge deduction, and be careful to make the relationship seedlings that are being cultivated instantly wither. ! Let’s take a look, remember to avoid these lightning points when dating, don’t step on the explosion without realizing it!
No.10 Wear slippers and be slovenly
Appearance is the first impression everyone gets when they meet someone. No matter who you go out with, it is the most basic courtesy to pay attention to clothing and appearance, especially if this is a date. If you just wear a pair of slippers or meet the other person with a greasy face, it will not only make people feel The other person thinks that you are a sloppy person, and may even think that you dont pay attention to this date or partner at all.

Many netizens shared their concerns about appearance. These key areas should be grasped. Loose collars become ruffles, and wearing slippers will really deduct points no matter how handsome you are. , Knowing how to take care of yourself is actually a very important thing. Being able to dress up is really a plus, but on the contrary, it is really a deduction.

No.9 Bring your friends to attend
An opportunity to get to know each other, but it was treated as a hodgepodge! If you bring your friends or family with you on a date, you will be setting up a super lightbulb, which will make the whole scene super awkward! The opportunity for two people to be alone together instantly turns into a dinner party with friends, which makes people feel that there is no desire for further development at all.
Netizens shared that “taking someone on a date is very embarrassing” and also mentioned that meeting someone you know is equally awkward. “I once went out with someone I was romantically interested in, and ended up meeting his friend. We chatted with him for almost half an hour. From my perspective, it was really embarrassing. Awkward, I think its better to just say hello and leave on a date, I also met someone with a family, and I was really embarrassed. When I went back, I felt like I had no chance.

No.8 Don’t listen to what others say
During the entire date, if the other person only talks about their own affairs and does not allow others any chance to speak or express their thoughts, they may even be distracted by doing other things while others are talking, without any intention of listening. , and also made netizens feel that it was really a huge deduction.

Many netizens pointed out that most people of this type are inexplicably domineering when dealing with them. “I really can’t accept people who only care about themselves and are chauvinistic.” Painful and Its really unacceptable. I will get off the boat directly. I feel that I cant listen to other peoples opinions at all, and we will only keep quarreling together.
No.7 Keep swiping the phone
Dating is actually a good time for both parties to chat and get to know each other better. However, if the other party keeps looking at their mobile phones, ignoring the person in front of them, and looking absent-minded, it will not only make the other party feel that they do not want to go on a date, but also make the atmosphere instantly cool. , maybe they don’t even want to continue talking about the topic, “It’s really disrespectful to keep swiping on your phone when you go out”, “It’s so rude”, “This means you don’t even want to pretend, so don’t waste your time.”

In addition to constantly using their mobile phones to ignore people, many netizens also mentioned that taking photos all the time while eating would be a huge demerit. Its super annoying to have to take photos all the time before eating. Not only the dishes are cold, but my heart is also cold. , I understand that boys love to play mobile games and girls love to take pictures, but cant they even control it temporarily during a date?

No.6 Talk about your great achievements and boast about them
Through dating and conversation, both parties can better understand each others favorite things and commonalities. However, if at this time, in order to highlight their greatness, they talk about the great achievements they have done, or brag about the deeds they have done, it will be difficult for them to do so since childhood. Listing awards and large donations will make the other party think that you are self-righteous and like to brag.

Most netizens think this is a major point deduction. If you like to brag so much, just make a PPT report. Im really not interested in great achievements, and I cant do anything about people who like to brag. Unless they are really powerful, Ill just say goodbye.

No.5 Impolite
In the process of getting along with anyone, you can actually tell whether the other person is a polite person through small details, and ordinary politeness is also equated with respect. If you always talk to others rudely, Respecting others without understanding is also an act that makes the other person feel incomprehensible.

Netizens also shared their own experiences, I once had a crush on a boy, but when I went to a restaurant to eat, he was very aggressive with the waiter. I immediately woke up and it was really easy to understand. Whether you are polite to other people is actually really important. , it’s just a question of whether there is a tutor and respect for people who don’t understand.” “Ill-mannered people usually have a condescending attitude.”

No.4 Careful about everything
In the process of dating, it is inevitable that one party will need to advance money first. However, if the other party even cares about the fraction of a few dollars after splitting the money, many people think it is a super deductive behavior and will be considered a person. People who are fussy and stingy will instantly make the other person less interested in being with you.

Netizens also said, Actually, there is nothing wrong with sharing the money equally, but it just feels very bad. I can see that the other person is stingy and caressing. It should be said that it is okay to split it equally, but if you have to worry about dozens of dollars, it is really not okay. I agree with the AA system, but dont ask me to take even a piece of the bag.

No.3 Careless hands and feet
Before a relationship is established, many people like to use physical contact to confirm each others feelings. However, if the other party cannot accept this, it will only make the other party feel that you have no sense of boundaries. Not only will they feel uncomfortable, They will even label you as a philanderer.

Netizens also said, “Appropriate physical contact is okay, but it’s really uncomfortable to move your hands and feet all the time.” “Before the relationship is confirmed or the other person’s feelings are confirmed, you really don’t want to have too much physical contact. It’s really uncomfortable.” Its very uncomfortable. I really hate people who touch people when they first meet. Its a big demerit.

No.2 Late
Stop saying womens dressing up is worth the wait for men! Please remember that being late is something you must never do when dating. It is almost synonymous with having no sense of time. Especially if you are late for the first date, it will leave a very bad first impression. Many people not only do not apologize after being late, but also come up with a lot of excuses to get forgiveness. To the other party, this is an incomprehensible behavior.

Many netizens shared their own experiences, Last time, I waited for half an hour under the bright sun and it was completely cold., I think its okay to be late, but its really shameful to keep lying to the other person until you arrive., Really dont give it to me. If you are late, you still act like you have done nothing wrong. If you are interested in someone, I will block it immediately.”

No.1 Pretend to be cool and the king of periods
When dating, many people dare not speak or pretend to be indifferent because they are shy and want to maintain their image. Some people think that being cold and pretending to be cool is just a way of expressing themselves, and they adopt a cold image or pretend to be cool without answering. On the contrary, this will make people feel overwhelmed, embarrassed, and even create a bad impression of you, thinking that you are putting on airs or that you dont like the other person.

Netizens mentioned that it is really scary to meet someone who is full stop on a date. Not only is it deducting points, but it is also extremely embarrassing. “It’s really true that I don’t know what to say because I keep saying the wrong thing.” Super solution, Stop pretending to be cool or thinking you are handsome, points will be deducted for being super invincible, Pretending to be cool will actually make people not want to date you again, and it will feel like forcing you to go out.